How to Include Grandparents and Seniors in Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is all about gratitude, connection, and gathering with the people who make life richer. For many families, that includes grandparents and cherished older relatives — the storytellers, the recipe keepers, the wisdom givers. 🧡

But with different schedules, mobility changes, and sometimes many miles between us, including seniors in the celebration can take a little extra thought. The wonderful news? Those thoughtful touches matter. They help our icons — yes, icons! — feel seen, valued, and right at the heart of the holiday.

Here are meaningful ways to make sure Grandma, Grandpa, or any beloved senior feels included this Thanksgiving — whether you’re celebrating across the table or across the country.

If you can celebrate in person here are a few ideas...

1. Keep Their Traditions Alive
Let them guide the stuffing recipe. Ask about the “secret ingredient.” Give them time and space to share the stories behind their dishes.  What was their most memorable Thanksgiving?

2.  Create Accessible, Comfortable Spaces
Think clear pathways, sturdy seating, walker-friendly setups — independence builds confidence.

3.  Put Them in the Gratitude Spotlight
Invite seniors to share a Thanksgiving memory or blessing — their voices add heart to the celebration.

4.  Give a Small Role That Matters
Scorekeeper for the football game? Napkin stylist? Table host? Small contributions make a big difference.

If you have to be apart for Thanksgiving here are some other ideas..

1. Schedule a Virtual Thanksgiving Dinner
Set up a tablet at the table so they can join the conversation and feel like part of the fun.

2. Send a “Thanksgiving-in-a-Box”
Include:

• A handwritten note

• Printed family photos

• A cozy seasonal treat

• A craft from the grandkids

3. Record Family “Love Notes”
Short heartfelt videos or voice messages that can be replayed anytime they need a smile.

4. Call With Conversation Prompts
Try:

• “What was Thanksgiving like when you were a child?”

• “What family recipe should we never stop making?”

5. Play a Game Together Online
Bingo, trivia, Scategories, word games — laughter bridges distance.